I love to do extreme sports,scuba, sail you name it!And tired of barbie girls!How do i find an extreme one?

I am 24 and no kids of wife or drama, just completed 5 years and 7 months in the navy and 2 times in iraq and 1 afghanistan and i dont want to look at the bars and dont want a barbie doll who is to prissy to go camping or go scuba diving with me, surfing, sailing rock climb etc.. you know! How have other people found these extreme chicks that are so impossible to find, i am not looking for a butch chick just a chick who enjoys what i find fun and she can still clean up nice as i do? is this self-ish or to much to ask i would consider anywhere from 20 to 30 in age ? any help ? thanks